The fact is that one unit of alcohol is not very much alcohol at all. Some guidelines:
Half a 175ml glass of wine
Half a pint of 3.5% ABV beer, cider or lager
25ml of spirits
25ml of sherry or vermouth
There is a simple formula for working out units of alcohol which is:
Strength (ABV) x volume (ml) ÷ 1,000 = No. of units
So by this method we can calculate that a 75cl bottle of 13% alcohol is 9.75 units. However it's important to realise that all individuals react in different ways to amounts of alcohol, and that keeping your intake within the bounds of certain calculations doesn't mean you aren't intoxicated.
Calories in alcohol have actually little to do with strength, but may be an interesting addendum to this thread. Again some guidelines - a 175ml glass of the below will have pretty much the following calorie content:
Dry white wine - 116
Medium white wine - 130
Red wine - 119
Rosé - 124
Sparkling - 130
While a 50ml glass of port will contain about 78 calories.